Why is it...

... That anytime Robbie and I help one of our siblings out that they take complete advantage of us and use us as fucking doormats!?

My brother has been living with us since April. He's going to school full time and working part time. He needed a room to rent, so Robbie and I offered our guest bedroom in our house for $250 a month plus $100 a month for food. Not bad considering I don't make him pay utilities. I had no issue with that until I realized what an ungrateful bastard he is!

He rarely pays rent on time. He'll pay it a week late, or later some months. He knows that I won't just throw him out into the streets because I'm his sister, so he takes advantage of that. He never seems to have money to pitch in for food, but he always seems to have enough to go to Salt Lake and go clubbing with his friends. Oh, but he has no problem raiding our fridge and eating all of the food that we pay for!

My in-laws got us some fried chicken tonight so we didn't have to cook. Before Robbie and I even have a chance to help ourselves my brother takes four pieces. Plus, he eats like eight times a day. What the fuck!?

And don't even get me started on him helping around the house. The only thing he'll do without being asked is the dishes. He doesn't actually clean the kitchen, just the dishes. I guess he expects me or Robbie to finish the half-assed job he does. I ask him to keep the guest bathroom clean and he can't manage to do that either. Grrr!!! >=(

Most of you are probably wondering if I've talked to him about all of this. You bet your ass I have. Multiple times in fact. I tried to be nice at first, but then I finally had to get mean and blunt about it. That changed things for about a week and then he starts doing the same shit over again!

What do you guys think I should do? Should I kick his ass to the curb? I'm really starting to think so. Tristan is coming soon and we'll need every penny we can get to stay afloat until I go back to work since I'm only getting 60% of my normal pay. My brother is actually costing us money rather than saving us money, so financially kicking him out would be the best option, but do I want to deal with the bullshit from my family? Help?